美国人中国人思想观念上最大的不同是啥?

in generalU.S 300000000 = 1+1+1+1+1china 1300000000 = 1amercian can create, Chinese can copy amercian believe any individual can change the way they live, Chinese look at what other Chinese do, listen to what parents say, and parents listen to what government say and advice to the kid what they better not do.amercian like to discove and ask why, Chinese like to wait for an answer of how Chinese think a person\u0026#39;s whole life is "money, house, kids, car and money house kids, car.....amercian believe a person\u0026#39;s whole life "money, house, kids, car and what you can do that can make other\u0026#39;s life better......amercian believe "knowledge is power, the way of learning and practice is key and skill"Chinese think " for woman, you need to find a rich man to change your life"for man, you need to "buzeshouduan, xin hen shou la" you will be successedChinese think "cover up" "forget" is best way to start a new lifeamercian think "if you lie, you need to make another lie to cover up. the best way to fix your mistake is to be honest to your neighbour, learn from your mistake, social trust is most expensive for people living in a country than anything else" bro, there are way too many differences................................no ending................
■网友的回复
这个问题太广泛了 事实上中国人想的东西美国人都有人同意,或许最大差别只有一条:他们没有“要一致”的恐惧
■网友的回复
且不说孰好孰坏,我们大多数人对未来的期望应该是安居乐业,稳定的家庭,稳定的收入,稳定的事业;他们的社会制度导致了自己的思想为重,具体来说,年轻的我们可能桀骜,可能可以什么不为去追求自己想要的,但时间的推移你会向这个社会大环境妥协,而他们宽松、包容的社会环境注定了他们可以选择怎么样活着,有大堆不愿干活的懒汉每月领着低保活着,也有大把的学霸彻夜K书,也有喜欢庸碌的就选择一个小职位,警察也好,办事员也好,出租车司机也好,和家人享受生活的活着……(最后一种应该是大家比较向往的吧,可不同的是别人干这个可以养活自己,可以有自己的房子,可以靠自己娶妻生子享受生活,我们……)
其实和另外两个答主表达的主旨差不多,我们大体上只有一种被认同的生活方式,而他们有多种,取决于他们自己,没有好坏之分,正是有我们大家的有条不紊的高压生活,我们国家才会发展的那么快,而美国(不仅限于美国,还可以参照其他欧洲发达国家)的宽松生活则对国家的发展不那么和谐了。
【美国人中国人思想观念上最大的不同是啥?】 其实研究历史大可看出我们的未来,毕竟世界上的人大体上都差不多。


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