感觉自己有时候太愚蠢了，有没有啥书看后能让人学点心计
谢邀！推荐美剧reign心计？说的好严重，到底多可怕的环境，需要你这样挣扎。只能说，多了解不一样的人，多体谅。留个心眼，保护好自己就够了。犯不着去争去抢去强求，对于大环境，我们需要fit in，只要面子上过得去，没必要纠结。遇事解决事，一时无法处理，暂时搁置，多关注自己，少操心别人……还有什么呢？无论如何不是万不得已千万不要去伤害人，多看美好的一面。以下引用女神的话，暖暖心。
【感觉自己有时候太愚蠢了，有没有啥书看后能让人学点心计】
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others. For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. I believe in manicures. I believe in overdressing. I believe in primping at leisure and wearing lipstick. I believe in pink. I believe happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and... I believe in miracles. I decided, very early on, just to accept life unconditionally; I never expected it to do anything special for me, yet I seemed to accomplish far more than I had ever hoped. Most of the time it just happened to me without my ever seeking it. I have to be alone very often. I’d be quite happy if I spent from Saturday night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That’s how I refuel. I heard a definition once: Happiness is health and a short memory! I wish I’d invented it, because it is very true. I was asked to act when I couldn’t act. I was asked to sing ’Funny Face’ when I couldn’t sing, and dance with Fred Astaire when I couldn’t dance - and do all kinds of things I wasn’t prepared for. Then I tried like mad to cope with it. I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it. I’ve been lucky. Opportunities don’t often come along. So, when they do, you have to grab them. If I’m honest I have to tell you I still read fairy-tales and I like them best of all. If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worthwhilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough. Living is like tearing through a museum. Not until later do you really start absorbing what you saw, thinking about it, looking it up in a book, and remembering - because you can’t take it in all at once. People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. Pick the day. Enjoy it - to the hilt. The past, I think, has helped me appreciate the present - and I don’t want to spoil any of it by fretting about the future. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.
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