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《Meet Collins.》｜ 灵魂相似的人对生命有共鸣( 四 )


Helen said, "I want to know how you live abroad. I want to know everything about you.".
海伦说：我想知道你在国外是怎么生活的 ， 我想知道有关你的一切 。
Collins said.i like to live a fun like. If I were gonna take you out for a romantic evening, where would you prefer?
柯林斯说：我喜欢活的有乐趣就好 ， 如果我带你出去度过一个浪漫的夜晚 ， 你更喜欢哪里？
Helen said: From a realistic point of view, this is impossible to achieve, because I am married and not single, which means I must remain loyal to my husband and family. I always think so, so it is impossible to go out with other opposite sexes. Spend a romantic evening.
海伦说：从现实的角度来说 ， 这个不可能实现 ， 因为我结婚了 ， 不是单身， 这意味着我必须对自己的丈夫和家庭保持忠诚 ， 我一直这么认为的 ， 所以不可能和其他异性出去度过一个浪漫的夜晚 。
Collins said, yes i understand. but love and marriage are two different thing dear, you could be married but not in love 。
柯林斯说：是的 ， 我明白 。 但是爱情和婚姻是两码事 ， 亲爱的 ， 你可以结婚但是也可以恋爱 。
Helen said: Love and marriage are indeed two different things. I have independent thoughts, emotions and economy in marriage, but I can’t feel the existence of love in my marriage. It’s just that two people are used to being like their own relatives, but looking at my husband, I don’t. Any feeling of heartbeat seems to belong to a partner in real life living together. He and I do not have any spiritual or soul resonance, only simple daily communication in life.I can't ask the other party to satisfy all my emotional and spiritual communication. After all, sometimes it is impossible for me to meet all my inner needs, so I will not selfishly demand what the other party must do.
海伦说：爱情和婚姻确实两回事 ， 我在婚姻里思想情感经济都是相对独立的 ， 但是我感受不到自己婚姻有爱情存在 ， 只是两个人习惯了如同自己亲人 ， 但是看着自己的丈夫我并没有任何一点心动的感觉 ， 仿佛属于现实生活中的合作伙伴在一起生活 ， 我和他没有精神和灵魂上任何共鸣 ， 只有生活中简单的日常沟通而已 ， 我也不能要求对方满足我所有的情感和心灵上的心意相通 ， 毕竟有时候自己都不可能满足自己一切的内心的需要 ， 所有我不会自私的苛求对方一定非要怎么样 。
Helen said: But I hope that if you are lucky enough, you can meet a soul-fitting partner to spend the rest of your life with, so that your love and marriage can be consistent, so that you can live happily with your loved one. This This is what I want you most in my heart. I hope you will always be happy, just like my own happiness.
海伦说：但是我希望你如果足够幸运 ， 可以遇见一个灵魂契合的伴侣与之共度余生 ， 从而使你的爱情和婚姻能够保持一致 ， 这样你就可以幸福的和所爱之人在一起生活 ， 这也是我内心最希望你得到的 ， 我希望你永远都是幸福的 ， 就如同我自己幸福是一样的 。

《Meet Collins.》｜ 灵魂相似的人对生命有共鸣文章插图
Collins said: What is your greatest fear?
柯林斯说：你最大的恐惧是什么？
Helen said, "Nothing seems to scare me, do you?"
海伦说：好像没什么事让我内心产生恐惧 ， 你呢？


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