怎样在美国高中毕业舞会(prom)找到舞伴(date)
直接说就好了
要是有喜欢的人就大大方方的问他乐不乐意当舞伴,他同意了更好,不同意也算是知道他心意了。
没有喜欢的就随便找个形象还不错的问问,不同意就再找下一个。
不用担心,大部分男生肯定都没舞伴。实在不好意思问就打扮的超级好看,到时候肯定有人过来问。祝好~
■网友的回复
Disclaimer: I\u0026#39;m not an expert in this kinda stuff.
But: I just found my prom date recently!! (捂脸)
So: I thought I should at least say something
The first thing is to decide on who are you willing to go to prom with. This shouldn\u0026#39;t be a random choice or a decision without any planning. Many people consider Prom a perfect chance to propose to / spend time with their crush (aww). If the person says yes to your prom proposal, then he/she don\u0026#39;t hate you, and might actually willing to become your actual date!!
Secondly, prepare your prom proposal. I don\u0026#39;t know if it is the same for all schools but in my school, it is mostly the guys who proposes. By saying that I do not mean the girls shouldn\u0026#39;t propose. The guys\u0026#39; proposals are more done in public (in English class??? don\u0026#39;t mimic) while the girls tends to propose privately. Your proposal doesn\u0026#39;t have to be grand, but you have to make your recipient feel that you are serious and not making a joke. That happens sometimes, sadly. Many people prepare bunch of flower when they propose, I didn\u0026#39;t, that depends on yourself and if you want to devote your time on it, I guess.
Lastly, and the most importantly, be brave! Don\u0026#39;t be shy! You never know if you will succeed before you try. And if you know that she/he will say yes, do not hesitate then! 血的教训
Btw, the chance of receiving the answer \u0026#39;yes\u0026#39; for prom is almost always (except if the person already has a date), so good luck on finding your prom date!
Answered in English cuz I felt like it.
中文打字太慢啦哈哈
■网友的回复
现在是最后一年了。我喜欢上了一个十年级的男孩。
这个周五邀请他,被拒绝了。他说那天他正好有事,并客套了一下,觉得我很好谁做我的date都很幸运云云。但我一个字都不信。这样的句式,太客套,太模版化了,我甚至觉得上网一查就能查出来一模一样的“如何拒绝别人邀请prom”的回复。
我理解他一个十年级根本没想过会去参加十二年级的prom,但是还是有点难受。说实话,我不相信他那周真的没空,就算“有空”他也不会答应我的。我宁愿他直接拒绝,给我两个字就好:NO。
【怎样在美国高中毕业舞会(prom)找到舞伴(date)】 我现在不知道该怎么办了。我当然可以和我的朋友们一起去,或者邀请一个关系好的女孩(我本来也没有想过和我喜欢的这个男孩以外的任何男生一起去prom),但是遗憾却还是留下来了。我不知道。我昨天晚上已经断断续续流过几次眼泪了,今天想起来仍然想哭。
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