咋和不是一个阶层的家庭优越的朋友相处

既然你和同学们关系已经很好了,说明家境的差别并不会影响你们的感情。交朋友这件事,动机各不同,不排除有人是带着目的来接近别人。但是至少在学生时代,选择朋友的标准还是比较单纯的,跟家庭背景无关。既然你们成为朋友的原因是因为“我觉得这个人有趣,我们共同经历了难忘的记忆”而不是“我觉得他的家庭背景对我有利,我需要接近他”,那就不必担心。我记得小王子里面有一段是这样的:Grown-ups love figures. When you tell them that you have made a new friend, they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you, "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies?" Instead, they demand: "How old is he? How many brothers has her? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make?" Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him.差距感肯定是有的,但我觉得这并不是问题所在。p.s.顺口调戏,题主你已经获得成就【和土豪做盆友】,恭喜。
■网友的回复
我怎么觉得少年你好厉害的啊!家庭物质条件不占优,却因为自己优秀而跻身于这些二代之中,我怎么觉得你同学们会在心中暗自佩服你的啊~ 反正是我的话我很喜欢身边有这样自强自立的同学,仿佛自己逼格也被提升了一样。被当作无能的二代是多么痛苦的事你造吗?爹妈太强势自己总显得弱爆了是啥滋味你造吗?不吐槽了都是泪。


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